Chapter 319 My father’s view on love
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How cold it is outside.
The moment I got home, I felt how warm it was.
back home.
It feels like a fulfilling day.
But also quite tired.
In front of the old emperor, even if you don't do anything, you will feel very tired.
However, Jiang Changtian is a person with strong execution ability. As long as he thinks it is useful, he is willing to do it.
When he got home and saw Xia Mei, Jiang Changtian felt relaxed.
Very reassuring.
The smile on his face is not as bright as outside, but his cheeks have changed slightly, with a little dimple.
The smile at this time is actually not as good-looking as the smile during the day, and is even a little silly, but it makes people feel happy.
"what's for dinner?"
"I know you will definitely want to drink a bowl of hot noodle soup when you come back. The wild onions and green vegetables grown in Mianmian grow very well. When you pull them out and make noodles, put some in. They are very fragrant."
It’s still noodles.
But being able to eat a bowl of Xia Mei’s hand-pulled noodles on a cold night in winter is already the greatest happiness.
For dinner, Mianmian and Brother Chong waited obediently for their father (Uncle Jiang) to come and eat together.
Jiang Changtian first ate a bowl of hot noodle soup, and then started to ask the two children how they were doing.
I asked Brother Cong first.
"I've been to the Star Gazing Pavilion these days. It's very good. I like it there. The books I read there are very interesting. Uncle, if I want to be a star gazer in the future, can it be okay?" Zi Congheng asked tentatively.
Jiang Changtian and Qin Luoxia were both stunned.
Qin Luoxia knew what a stargazer was because she heard her daughter talk about it several times.
My daughter had previously sent letters to stargazers in Jingzhou.
To be honest, she didn't understand how anyone could be willing to do such a boring job.
However, Qin Luoxia felt that doing something like this was a big deal and she might not understand it, so she looked at her knowledgeable husband.
Jiang Changtian was also slightly surprised.
He thought that given his brother's life experience, it would be a bit embarrassing for him to take the scientific examination and become an official.
It can't be done now.
He himself did not come from a scientific background, nor did he insist on forcing his juniors to do so.
"Yes, but don't make a decision in a hurry. You are still young. You should watch and learn first. If you come into contact with other people in the future, you can do something else. Anyway, there are many choices in life."
Zi Congheng nodded, with a smile on his face, a little happy.
Then Jiang Changtian asked Mianmian how he was going to study with Yushi He.
Mianmian also replied excitedly: "I'm a good learner. My husband doesn't have time to teach me directly, so he asked his staff, Mr. Dongfang, to teach me."
"Oh, what did you learn?" Jiang Changtian asked curiously.
"a lot."
Mianmian shared it with her fingers.
"You must memorize the laws, regulations and rules. Either be the one who makes the rules, or learn to violate the rules and exploit loopholes in the rules reasonably."
"Before you do something bad, always check to see if there is anyone around you. Secrets will help."
"If you want to kill someone from the Nine Clans, you must first look at the family tree of the Nine Clans, just in case you are also a relative of him."
"How to convict someone, you can let the other party prove that he is not guilty, which is much simpler than you proving that he is guilty."
"When you curse someone, you must be confident and loud even if it doesn't make sense. You'll curse them anyway."
"Generally, you can't convince the other party when you quarrel, so the purpose of the quarrel is only to make the other party unhappy."
"Also, if you are not afraid of powerful people and dare to fight treacherous people, if you can't defeat the opponent, then call the other party a powerful person. If you can't fight the opponent, say that the other party is a treacherous person. Then label the opponent and then beat him..."
At first, Jiang Changtian sounded pleasant and nodded slightly.
By the end, my face was turning a little blue.
Qin Luoxia was holding a spoon to serve soup, but now the handle of the spoon was bent.
Brother Cong silently hugged the bowl in front of him towards himself.
"There are many more. I found that Mr. knows too much. I have to go there tomorrow." Jiang Mianmian, full of curiosity, said excitedly.
Jiang Changtian held down Xia Mei's hand and said calmly: "Let's teach him well and don't do it. If you beat me for a while, you'll feel bad again. Or I'll beat you and my hand will be weaker!"
Jiang Mianmian bounced away from the table... What's wrong? You asked me to study and improve. I study so hard and I'm still not satisfied... It's all philosophy...
Then he was tripped by the "unknowing" Brother Cong and didn't run away...
Mianmian looked at Brother Chong's long legs sadly.
The legs are amazingly long! !
And then was left behind.
My father was not willing to fight either.
Dad is ready to talk some sense.
The main reason is that Mianmian's face looks too much like Princess Huiyun.
The personality is a bit similar too.
Exactly the same.
This gave Jiang Old Father Changtian a little myocardial infarction.
He despised his own mother from the bottom of his heart.
She is worried that Mianmian will look like her grandmother in the future.
But compared to the education of the He Jiu clan who confiscated the family's home, it might be better for the little girl to follow Princess Huiyun.
Moreover, the princess has been looking for trouble with her consort in the past two days. She will probably be sent back soon, and she will still look for Mianmian.
Jiang Changtian felt that there was no way to guard against thieves, so he had to educate him first to seize the opportunity. Although the child was still young, there were some things he had to say first.
So after dinner.
The family had a grand meeting, with refreshments and tea after the meal.
We must focus on physical education, as well as ideological education.
Parents who have adopted children in their [-]s worry about whether their children will be depressed, have Alzheimer's disease, or have no one to take care of them when they are [-] years old.
Mianmian took a sip of milk tea. It was sweet, added with milk, and had a very authentic taste.
Then because I was at home, I sat on the footrest, crossed my legs, and behaved obediently.
There is a charcoal pot in the house, it's not too cold, just cover yourself with a thin blanket.
And it's like making tea around the stove.
However, the home is still not as powerful as the Princess Mansion. The Princess Mansion directly has floor heating, which is awesome.
The floor heating is all based on artificial stoves, which costs people, firewood and materials.
Jiang Changtian saw that both children were seated.
Judging from the indifferent look on his brother's face, this kid looks very cold on the surface, but he is actually a very affectionate child. The indifference is just the expression of someone who is too affectionate and does not want to easily interact with others.
The face is cold and the heart is hot.
Mianmian was the opposite. Mianmian was warm-hearted and cold-hearted. Jiang Changtian felt that his little daughter looked very lively. In fact, on the contrary, she was very lonely inside. She felt separated from everyone, as if she was alienated from the whole world. There is a general estrangement and some incompatibility.
However, regardless of whether he has a warm face and a cold heart or a cold face and a warm heart, Jiang Changtian decided to fulfill his father's duties today and must teach his children the concept of love.
Although it seems that the elders said this is a bit difficult to talk about, but thinking about my own confused mother, I took it as a warning and must teach her.
Jiang Changtian said, "I want to tell you about the dangers of love."
Mianmian:? ?
Zi Congheng:? ? ?
Mianmian looked at her father's serious face and thought to herself, "My father is very advanced. Didn't free love not be allowed in ancient times?" It's all the parents' orders and the matchmaker's words.
But think about it, not allowing free love may go against human nature. Even if the parents order a matchmaker, they will actually allow contact. It is impossible to really blindly marry, and if there is really no free love, then there will be no Zhuo Wenjun in The West Chamber. The story about selling wine or something.
“If you meet someone and feel like you fall in love at first sight, fall in love with them, and fall deeply in love with them, this is a very scary thing.
If you blindly like someone, you will become stupid first.
Once people become stupid, they are easily deceived and lose money. Easily injured, a fool will always get hurt, and will sacrifice himself and his whole family, which is the ultimate stupidity.
The second time, you will become annoying, you will be suspicious all day long, your mind will be used to think about what the other person is doing every day, and you will have nothing to do. You will have low self-esteem and always feel that you are not worthy of the other person. You will no longer make progress and stop there.
Third, it will be short-lived. If you don’t eat well or sleep well when you are in love, it will affect your health and longevity. If you try your best to be in love, you won't die if you don't do it. One day you will commit suicide.
Qin Luoxia was frightened when she heard this. Is love so dangerous? Fortunately, she doesn't fall in love casually, she only likes her husband.
Jiang Mianmian: ...Okay, okay, wait until I get my notebook to write it down.
Zi Congheng looked at Uncle Jiang. If Mianmian never finds a partner or gets married in the future, I wonder if you will regret it in a hurry. He will wait and see.
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