In the Years When I Was a Father

Qi Sheng was awakened by the voice in the living room and got out of the room. Sure enough, he saw his wife Lin Hui entertaining the guests. Qi Sheng walked over and the two of them on the sofa simply shook hands and sat across from them. Was looking at his wife curiously: “This is?”

“They are Teacher Zhang and Teacher Wang of the Youth Management Training School. Today, they came to pick Xiao Jin.”

With a smile on his face, Lin Hui didn’t know the truth and thought how good a middle school is for youth management training schools. But Qi Sheng, who already knows how things are going, can’t help but scold her mother, what kind of parents will send their own children to that kind of human hell!

After receiving the plot of this world, Qi Sheng was disgusted first. Now he can pretend to have nothing with a smile, and it really tests his acting skills.

The original owner Qi Sheng is a high school mathematics teacher. He teaches in a better public school in the city, and his income is not particularly high, but fortunately, his work is stable. In recent years, he has held tutorial classes with other teachers every year to earn extra money. In addition, his wife Lin Hui is a hotel lobby manager, and his monthly salary is higher than his. Although not rich and expensive, a family of three can also be regarded as a well-off life.

Qi Sheng is very satisfied with his current life. His parents died in a car accident when he was five years old. He was raised by his grandfather. After graduation, he entered a good middle school and became a teacher. He married and gave birth to a girl he likes and could serve in his grandfather ’s later years. Filial piety can provide a stable life for his wife and children. At that time, Qi Sheng felt that his parents must be blessing him.

But life will not be smooth, nor is it that everyone will be satisfied with this simple and plain life.

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After giving Lin Hui some glances and seeing that she didn’t respond, Qi Sheng had to say: “Xiaohui, let’s enter the house and discuss again.”

Lin Hui looked at her husband who had repentance plans and forced her heart to be bored. How blind her eyes were and how simple it was to choose such a man with no opinion and no ambition among the suitors .

When Lin Hui was young, she was one of the best beauties. The famous school flower in her school was spoiled by her parents and those around her. She was carefree about food and clothing and did not understand the hardships of life.

The simple and beautiful little girl met the gentle and handsome school grass Qi Sheng, then Lin Hui thought how lucky she was to have an enviable love!

Therefore, she appeased her parents who did not support the marriage of the two, refused the generous pursuit of the rich second generation, and married Qi Sheng without turning back.

I still remember that her mother repeatedly persuaded her before she married: “That child is a good one, but the conditions are fair. Marrying is not just looking at the face. If you don’t consider the economic conditions, the mother really supports you, just a child. You have to understand that marriage is not just about having two people together, but also having to deal with various trivial matters in life. Many of these trivial matters can actually be solved with money. Otherwise, why is there a saying that the poor and the humble couple are all mourning?

She heard her mother say, “You haven’t had any hardships since you were a child, and you’re so sharp in front of your classmates and friends. Can you tolerate one day they live better than you?”

Lin Hui listened to her mother’s various persuasion and began to refute one by one in her heart.

What is meant by a poor couple? Qi Sheng has a good job and stable treatment. She also has a job and has a good income. Can the two work hard together? Besides, all of her classmates and friends envy her to be with Qi Sheng! Qi Sheng is gentle and considerate, and has various tolerances for her. Although she doesn’t say much about love, she often surprises and romances her, and often cooks various foods for her …

The girl who is immersed in love and has never been to the ivory tower feels that it is worthwhile to marry such a person in this life!

Therefore, without experiencing the trials of life and the test of years, Qi Sheng is simply her white moonlight, but she did not expect that one day this white moonlight will really become mosquito blood!

Lin Hui has carefully weighed Qi Sheng’s conditions, but she feels that Qi Sheng’s family conditions are average, but her work is stable and handsome, she is gentle and patient, and she will not be troubled by her in-laws even if she gets married. Grandpa has to take care of it, but after all, there is a difference between men and women. It is mostly Qi Sheng who serves the elderly in close proximity. The two love each other so much, how can they be sad in the future.

In the first few years, Lin Hui had a really good life. The pressure on her life was not too great. Her husband loved her very much. Even if she had some strong capriciousness occasionally, her husband would spoil her and let her. Lin ’s cute son, even occasionally mischievous, is lively and cute in Lin Hui ’s eyes.

Such a happy and warm life started to become less beautiful after she switched to become a hotel lobby manager.

People always can’t help contrasting, especially Lin Hui, who has been sharp since childhood. Regardless of appearance or performance, Lin Hui always has a sense of superiority in front of other girls. Even the boyfriends and husbands she chooses have excellent looks and temperament. Before graduation, Lin Hui was the envy of many girls.

But since I was the lobby manager of a five-star hotel, I have come across too many celebrities and even sociable flowers. I can’t see her as much as she looks and talks. Car transfer, check-in is also a presidential suite or a luxury suite, Lin Hui slowly is not taste.

In those years, my grandfather was in poor health, and he spent a lot of his savings at home taking medicine. His son was still small, and he spent a lot of money, so the couple had a relatively frugal life, and even had to buy a car for Lin Hui. The car’s plan also had to be stranded temporarily.

When Lin Hui was squeezing the bus while enduring the harassment of the crowds and even some sloppy men in the car, she couldn’t help but squeeze her current situation.

But at that time, she was only occasionally uncomfortable in her heart. The life she had chosen, the husband and children she now has, still gave her the motivation to persevere.

Lin Hui comforted herself so much, but couldn’t help feeling that her sacrifice had become this warm and happy little family. In the face of Qi Sheng, she could naturally straighten her willful temper.

Fortunately, Qi Sheng is indeed a good-tempered and patient person. He also understands the reasons for his wife’s dissatisfaction and feels distressed about his wife’s hard work outside. Too much for Lin Hui’s temper.

Qi Sheng can tolerate his wife ’s increasingly bad temper, but his spoiled son was unacceptable since he was a child, especially Qi Jin avoided the genes of the two parents ’academics badly. No less.

At first, Lin Hui looked at his son ’s poor grades and patiently gave him lectures, but the little children were not very sensible. They always like to be mischievous and do not study well. The mother and son are staged several times, you chase me, escape you, hide me After the fight in the big scene, Lin Hui simply handed over her son’s performance rights to her husband.

But even Qi Sheng, who is a teacher, was helpless about Qi Jin ’s unattainable grades. People who have always been good-tempered also beat their sons, but it ’s a very stinky kid who only remembers to eat, not to understand, and does n’t understand. Parents’ anxiety.

Lin Hui is strong in everything, and hopes that her son will become a child of other people as well as she was when she was a child. Unfortunately, Qi Jin ’s achievements can only make her sympathetic to other parents and accused by the teacher in charge of the class. People, even if their husbands can’t walk away that day, they don’t want to go to hold a parent meeting for their son.

As a good-tempered husband and father, Qi Sheng enlightened between the mother and the child, persuaded his wife not to hold back the fire for his son’s achievements, and took the top spot in 360 lines. If he did not study well, he would report more to him. Interest class, which line may have talent. He also taught his son to study hard. If he has other hobbies, he can try it.

With the gentle mediator Qi Sheng, the relationship between the mother and the son gradually eased, but unfortunately life seemed to be embarrassed with Lin Hui. After many hobby experiences, Qi Jin finally found one of his most passionate: games!

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Lin Hui saw that her husband insisted that he had to get up and follow him to the bedroom, but his smiley face was pulled down instantly, “What else can be discussed, we paid the tuition, just like Xiao Jin, You talk about you controlling him! “

Qi Sheng patiently coaxed: “I will look at him in the future, Xiao Jin is still a child no matter what, we patiently teach that he will be sensible someday.”

“I also reflected on the previous education method during this time. We always forced him to study, leaving him no free time at all, so that he had to skip classes to play games. You see, if we can arrange him to study reasonably And entertainment time, maybe the little guy can listen to the conversation. “

Lin Hui looked at her husband who was looking forward to it and found it funny, “Study is his own, don’t you have to coax him to do it! Give him time to play games, it’s not exactly what he intended, and he still wants to study Look at the results of your discipline in these years, skip the Internet, follow a group of social youth to play games every day, and now learn to fight elders and run away from home, whose children are as rebellious as him, it is not what you usually do, do n’t think I do n’t know, every time I finish teaching my son, you will coax him in the back. ”

Lin Hui became more and more disappointed with her son, especially after attending the class meeting some time ago.

Husband, in addition to being good-tempered and good-tempered, what else can you compare with others? You can see the career and income in your life, so Lin Hui has long given up her hopes; son, average grades, and no skill, can not be compared with others. ratio!

On the way home from the classmate’s association, Lin Hui couldn’t help but shrink in the car and wept bitterly. She has always been proud, but nowadays life is ordinary and it’s “a mess”! When people asked about his son’s achievements today, Lin Hui’s face could no longer be hung up, remembering the few people at the banquet who were most envious of her, and looking at her with an unclear look, Lin Hui violently took a bad shot. steering wheel.

It was this experience of the classmates that made Lin Huitie hard to discipline his son.

Qi Jin was very skinny since he was a child, and because he was accustomed to her motionless lessons, ordinary scolding could not change anything at all. After being beaten, she could still sneak away to play games online, even the cram school she reported to before, She can actually find someone to help her shift. If she had to go to the cram school to watch Qi Jin’s performance, she didn’t know her son would dare to be so bold.

Angrily, Lin Hui, who had nothing to do with it, heard about a special high school in this city during a small chat with colleagues: the Junior Youth Management Training School.

Closed militarization management!

This made Lin Hui see hope in despair, so he signed up for his son without consulting with her husband.

Lin Hui did n’t worry about her husband ’s objection anyway. The man ’s temper was always soft. She persuaded several times to make a good deal of coaxing. That ’s how it was settled, and the tuition fees were paid. It was also to discipline his son. People finally have to agree.

Qi Sheng could n’t help but deny his wife ’s evaluation of his son: “Son is as bad as you said! You usually taught him which time he dared to hit you. This time, if you insisted on letting him go to this kind of school, he scared him , He did n’t dare to hit you away from home, you also saw it when I taught him yesterday, the child is really scared this time! You ’re not reading the online news, good children are sent to this kind of school, Either beaten or tortured to death! Who is willing to send in. “

Lin Hui was impatient: “How many times have I told you, I have inquired carefully about this school, and will not corporal punish the child for no reason. If this stupid boy does nothing wrong, people will punish him? Again, send it in. It was n’t our family who went to school, you heard of a few real accidents! “

Seeing Qi Sheng unmoved, Lin Hui was a little annoyed: “What’s wrong with you today? You can see if you are accustomed to him. He is not afraid of you at all. This time it is just right. I might not be able to stay for a year and I can really concentrate on studying, so let ’s let him stay in for a year first. If the son really performs well after a year, then he will be transferred back to him. “

Lin Hui was a little tired. This man was a soft-hearted master before. Today, the school teachers came to pick up people at home, and he began to hesitate again. There was no manly domineering!

Unfortunately, today’s Qi Sheng seems to let her see the “man domineering”.

Faced with his wife’s perseverance and anger, Qi Sheng did not give in as usual, but instead firmly said: “Son, I will not agree to be sent to such a school. I will tell the two people outside now that the son will not go. Let’s pay the compensation for the tuition we paid. “After we finished, we planned to leave the bedroom.

Lin Hui grabbed him, and at the moment it was almost exasperated. “Don’t we have already discussed this kind of thing before, now how come back again, can you be like a man!”

When Lin Hui started telling Qi Sheng, Qi Sheng was so opposed. The dialogue between the two happened to be overheard by Qi Jin. After all, Qi Jin often went online and heard about this kind of school. After he was sent to the Youth Management Training School, he deliberately checked this school, but the more he checked, the more frightening he was. How could he be called a school there?

Qi Jin couldn’t accept the fact that his mother-in-law would push him into the fire pit. She was very angry and confronted Lin Hui, and Lin Hui looked at her son who yelled at her. Send him to reform.

After Qi Shengan comforted his wife, he went to coax his son, but neither side was pleased.

The three of the family stalemate for a few days, until Qi Sheng went home for an hour early that day, and found that his son was packing up his luggage and the ticket to the sea market. Qi Sheng was furious that his son dared to run away from home. It was a disappointment. Not only did he beat his son hard, he also agreed to his wife’s decision.

“Like a man? OK, then I will tell you, I am here today, son don’t want them to be taken away, it will be impossible in the future!”

Looking at her decisive husband now, Lin Hui smiled, “I spend tens of thousands of dollars every year, not good for him, you have no interest, and you have stopped your son from becoming a talent, Qi Sheng, I am so disappointed with you. . “

Listening to his wife’s comments, Qi Sheng couldn’t help but get angry, “This is what you say, I really don’t have the ability, and I can’t let you live a wealthy and expensive life, but how can you betray me, my son’s Do n’t ruin your life! “

“Yes, it’s just in my heart, I’m fed up with a man like you who is content with the status quo every day. I dare not imagine that my son will one day become a social gangster. You don’t agree with it, then we will divorce.” Lin Huiren Can’t help but say the thoughts in my heart, and even when I mentioned the divorce, there was even a hint of unimaginable pleasure.

Qi Sheng heard that his wife had even proposed to divorce, and became a little silent. Before waiting for his position, Qi Jin, who had been eavesdropping outside the door, couldn’t help but break in.

“Dad, please, don’t send me there, I will be obedient in the future.” Qi Jin knelt directly in front of Qi Sheng, begging holding Qi Sheng’s legs.

He was really scared now. When he was locked in the room, he even thought about jumping off the building. Finally, he pried the door open. When he found out that his father regretted sending him to such a school, he was still looking forward to it. Knowing not to rush in again, Dad is likely to continue to compromise.

Qi Sheng looked at his son who knelt on the ground with fear and fear was very distressed. He raised his son and calmed down: “Relax, Dad will never allow anyone to send you to that kind of school.”

“OK! Qi Sheng, then let’s divorce!” Lin Hui was impatient and disappointed with this person. She didn’t want to argue anymore. She didn’t do it for the sake of her son’s future. Now in the eyes of father and son She has become a heart-to-heart person, and she has had enough of these days!

Lin Hui went directly to her desk and turned on the computer to start printing the divorce agreement.

Qi Jin regretted his previous willfulness and quickly apologized to Lin Hui for acknowledging his mistake: “Mom, I know it is wrong. Don’t divorce your father. I will listen to you in the future. I will definitely study hard and never play games anymore. . “

It is a pity that Lin Hui has made up his mind now, and he is not very concerned about his son’s guarantee: “You will talk to your dad in the future, whether you want to study or not, it will be up to you. Your dad is willing to get used to you and I won’t care anymore.”

He did n’t look at his son anymore, and he did n’t care how he pleaded. She should have made up her mind to leave. Why waste her good time on the unconcerned father and son!

Qi Sheng looked blankly at his wife’s behavior but didn’t speak. He even stood up and came to the living room, watching the two people still sitting on the sofa, and asked them to leave with a cold face.

The two teachers may have seen this kind of scene, and they did not show displeasure about the attitude of the male host. Instead, they explained: “Mr. Qi, I think you have a misunderstanding about our school. Our youth management training school is The formal closed military education school has strict school rules, but it is definitely for the sake of the children. You can rest assured that you will give us your children. Three years later, you will be guaranteed to see a new and outstanding child. ” Teacher Wang said with a firm face, he was very proud of their school’s management philosophy.

But Qi Sheng didn’t have a good face for them. After three years, Qi Jin could not bear to commit suicide by cutting his wrist. In the plot he received, Qi Jin committed suicide one year later. Lin Hui listened After hearing the news, he secretly sold the house and took away the property and left. The original owner, because of Qi Jin ’s experience, broke out on the Internet, and the dog blood spout was scolded by the public. Some netizens flesh out his true information. Not only was he expelled from the school. Even more often, Qi Jin ’s former friends still blocked the original owner and beat it for several times. The original owner who broke down overnight could not bear these blows. He walked on the road in a trance and was hit by passing vehicles. dead.

The originally warm family became fragmented because of Qi Jin’s school trip. Qi Sheng blamed the original owner for not being able to protect his children, but hated these schools for torturing their children under the guise of education.

“No, my child, I will discipline myself. Please two.”

The two saw that he couldn’t persuade him, and they didn’t say much about the tuition that had been paid. After the two left, Qi Sheng turned to his son and said, “Go back to your room first. I have something to talk with your mother.”

“Dad …” Qi Jin’s voice was hoarse, and he looked at Qi Sheng very worried.

“Good boy, Dad will deal with it.”

After comforting his son, he returned to the bedroom and looked at the woman with a sullen face sitting on the office chair. Qi Sheng didn’t take the gentleness of the past.

“I agree to a divorce, but my son must be with me.”

Lin Hui looked at the man without hesitation in front of her and instantly felt that she was ridiculous. She gave up her excellent life and followed this man, gave him a son and took care of the family for him. Here became a ruthless person!

Lin Hui’s grievances in the past years have made her a little bit of her love for Qi Sheng. Now that Qi Sheng agrees to divorce, she only feels easy to release. She is really fed up with such hopeless days.

“Yes, my son can give you, but the house and car at home must belong to me. There are still 200,000 fixed deposits. I don’t want you and your son to sleep on the street. We have half the deposit. If you agree, you can go to divorce now. . “She paid so much for this family to give up, these things are what she deserves.

Qi Sheng did not hesitate about Lin Hui ’s plan to let him go out of the house, but agreed to Lin Hui ’s request, but finally reminded him: “The son will belong to me in the future and will not have any relationship with you” .

Lin Hui couldn’t help but laugh when she heard this. When the son was a treasure, she couldn’t help but clear the relationship. She was really afraid that one day a social hooligan would come to call her mother and ask her for money.

After Qi Sheng signed the letter, the two did not stay, and went through the property transfer procedures as required by Lin Hui.

The real estate certificate was originally the names of the two people. Lin Hui worried that Qi Sheng was impulsive and did not care about the problem of the house, so he wanted to implement the problem of the house as soon as possible. It is now 2010, the price of the house is getting more and more expensive, and this house is the most valuable for them.

Today is a working day. Qi Sheng is staying at home because it is summer vacation and the cram school has already finished. Lin Hui was worried about her husband’s temporary repentance and specifically asked for leave.

After finishing all the formalities, Qi Sheng looked at the newly released green book and couldn’t help but vomit in his heart. It was a novel experience to get a divorce certificate on the first day of the world.