After rebirth and divorce, I took care of my children and became rich
Chapter 51 Parents who have difficulty communicating
In her previous life, Chen Hong often explained to herself: Compared with the exploitation that her father suffered at the hands of her grandma, compared with the injustice that her father suffered at the hands of her grandma, her own situation was much better.
Dad earns money alone to support a family of ten people including grandparents, brothers, sister, and his own family, but he can't afford to be a [-] cent home.
In comparison, if I spend 30 yuan to buy some durian for my son and have to secretly carry it behind my husband's back, I am already relatively financially free.
In the end, Chen Hong relied on comparing her father's difficult life to persist until her eldest son graduated from college and her younger son grew up.Anyone who has experienced a depressing married life knows what it feels like!
I have started over in this life, and I have escaped from that painful and helpless fate.But how can his father change him?
Chen Hong had a headache. She knew her father's stubbornness very well.In his previous life, it was just before he fell ill and could no longer speak.
I tried to persuade him to work less and worry less about his brother's family. No matter how many times I tried to persuade him, he wouldn't listen.His motto throughout his life is "Keep pushing the cart without falling!"Do it while you're alive, even if you die! 》
This is what he said and did in his previous life.But by seeing his eyes in the later stages of his illness, Chen Hong knew that he probably regretted it.But it was too late, nothing could be done.
The son he had struggled for half his life had let him down, and he had not been cared for much throughout the entire illness.The daughter-in-law is not even close to her, and the younger daughter lives far away in Beijing.With only his eldest daughter by his side, he is helpless and unable to protect himself.
After a fierce marital quarrel, Chen Hong had obtained her husband's permission to take her father home to take care of her.But the stubborn and sensitive old man was determined not to leave his old house or embarrass his daughter.
Such a father makes Chen Hong feel extremely guilty and sad. Since her father passed away, she has been avoiding the topic of her father.What to say?Talk about your own incompetence, talk about your own powerlessness, or talk about your own helplessness.
In the last days, the father and daughter could only hold each other's hands and talk to each other silently.Chen Hong knew that her father was worried about her, and regretted that she had listened to her mother and indulged her brother too much, causing her brother to become a lazy and show-off person like her grandfather.
Although he tried hard to correct his brother's temper in the later period, there was a huge gap between father and son, and he even suffered a stroke and blood clot due to anger, but he did not see any change in his brother.
Dad left with regrets. He had worked hard all his life, and his three children could not allow him to live his old age with peace of mind.In the last ten days of his father's life, his three children surrounded his bed. He didn't know that the youngest daughter she was most proud of was divorced at the age of 45.
The little sister hid it from everyone in the family, just like Chen Hong now. She didn't want her family to know, so she could only worry and feel sad, but she couldn't do anything to help her. She repeated comforting words.
But sometimes, the comfort of family members can be like a sharp knife that can pierce people's hearts.It's better to pretend that you don't understand, let the pain be quietly taken away by time, and never mention it again.
Since the death of their father, sisters Chen Hong have actually complained about their mother deep down and don't know how to face her.
My mother has a great responsibility for my father’s life’s pain.She has favored boys over girls since her brother was very young.When my brother made a mistake, he not only ignored him, but also made excuses to cover him up.As a result, the older he got, the more out of place he became, and father and son almost became enemies.
My father’s life savings, under my mother’s planning, bought two houses for my brother.He didn't leave any pension money for himself, and he was faced with difficulties in treating his later illness.
My father earns money all his life. In the first half of his life, he gave it to his grandfather to support his parents and brothers, and in the second half of his life, he gave it to his mother to support his son and his family.
Until he fell ill, he had never saved a dollar and had never had a bank account in his life.All his money was in his mother's hands, and it was used to fill the hole for his son.
Chen Hong's brother is not a bad person, but he has been used to spend money lavishly since he was a child. In addition to eating, drinking and having fun, he plays cards and gets drunk. When he has no money, he asks his mother for money, and he can't control himself at all.
In the eyes of Chen Hong and her younger sister, their mother was helping their brother and his family suck their father's blood.
But what is helpless is that in their feudal thinking, they are willing to die for their son, and all they have to do is for that family.
They never thought that the family did not belong to their father alone, and that the whole family could not live on him alone.
After my father passed away, my brother gradually started working part-time, and my sister-in-law also went to a restaurant to serve dishes and work as a courier.
My mother sadly returned to her hometown to live alone. At that time, she was left alone, and she realized that her husband was much more important to her than her son.
In the past two months after her rebirth, Chen Hong has called her father more than a dozen times.Let him come to Jiaodong to help take care of the children, and she will give him money every month.
But the old man just disagreed. He didn't want to accept his daughter's support, which made him feel embarrassed and couldn't hold his head high.
I have always believed that if I work harder, I can make money, and I don’t rely on anyone.
Such a stubborn father made Chen Hong scratch his head anxiously. There was really nothing he could do about him. He had not suffered the hardships of his previous life, so he would not listen to anyone's persuasion.
When Chen Hong was preparing to return to Jinan for more than ten days to attend her sister-in-law's full moon party, she told her family about her divorce.He and his little sister pretended to be weak and coaxed him to come to Rongcheng.
Maybe after living for a while and seeing that she can make money, she will agree to stay, right?
To be honest, Chen Hong really couldn't predict the outcome, so she could only take it one step at a time.The worst-case scenario is that Dad gets angry again just like in his previous life.
In this life, I have confidence. The space can bring me great wealth, and the food produced can also protect the body.As for whether it can cure diseases, we don't know yet, but the possibility is very small.
Now, Chen Hong is very contented.
When she learned that her father had gone out to work again, Chen Hong called her mother again. She still had a landline at home.The phone rang for a while, and just when Chen Hong thought there was no one at home and was about to put down the phone, she was finally picked up.
Chen Hong heard her brother's voice on the phone and said to the phone: "Brother, didn't you go out to work? Where is our mother?"
"I'm not alive anymore. I'll rest at home for a few days. Our mother is doing laundry! Is something okay?"
Just like in the previous life, every time I heard him speak, it was in the same tone.
"Why don't you do it with our dad? Doesn't our dad have a job? Let our mom answer the phone."
After waiting for a while, my mother's voice came from the other side: "Hong, what's the matter? I'm doing laundry here."
"Why isn't my brother working? I called my dad just now. Isn't my dad working in Jinan?"
"Your brother just came back. It's been too hot these days. Let's rest for a few days before going."
"He knows how hot it is when he's young, but doesn't my dad know how hot it is? I really admire you two! Did you give my dad some of the things I sent home? Do you still have them at home? You drink more too!"
"There is still a bottle of honey and two boxes of tea. The honey is really good this time. I see that your dad has eaten more during this time and his blood pressure is no longer high. If it is better, you can buy some more and send them to me. Last time Your sister-in-law’s mother will come and give her two bottles.”
"Didn't I tell you? This thing is very expensive and difficult to get. I won't let you give it away. I'll leave it for my dad to drink. Why did you give it away? Does dad drink it?"
"It's not an outsider, it's your sister-in-law's mother-in-law. Please lower your voice and let her hear that she doesn't want to. No matter how expensive it is, why are you so expensive? Just buy some after you finish drinking!"
Chen Hong was going crazy when she knew it was like this again: "It's not expensive, let her buy it by herself! Yes, her mother is not an outsider, but I gave it to my dad. 300 yuan a pound, you say it's not expensive You can buy it for my dad!"
"It's so expensive! You naughty kid, why didn't you tell me the price? Why did you buy such an expensive thing?"
"Didn't I say it's expensive? Didn't I say it's hard to get? It's for my dad's body conditioning. If he drinks it for a long time, he won't need to take antihypertensive drugs. How many times have I told you, have you listened?"
"Why are you so angry? Who told you not to pay 300 yuan per pound? As long as you can, you don't care about anything."
"I have to say, my dad will definitely be reluctant to drink it. Your son will have to drink it all. Don't give the remaining bottle to anyone. No one can drink it. Give it to my dad to treat high blood pressure."
After hanging up the phone, Chen Hong's face turned red with anger.I have always been reluctant to call my mother, just to make her angry.
This happens every time. Unless necessary, Chen Hong always calls her father.I can't communicate with my mother at all. It doesn't hurt at all, but both mother and daughter get angry when it comes down to it.
It seems that in the end this bottle of honey will not reach Dad's mouth. Mom will definitely have to give it to his son, daughter-in-law, and granddaughter to drink, and she herself is reluctant to part with it.
Regarding her mother, Chen Hong didn't know how to face her after two lifetimes.In addition to buying some clothes for her to wear and giving her money, she spent it on her son and his family.Give her food and leave it for her son, daughter-in-law, and granddaughter.
Chen Hong had a hard time in her previous life. The money and things given to her were all saved by herself and her son for her, but she always wasted her time. Those things were things that she and her son were reluctant to eat and use.
It seems that we must find a way to bring dad to Rongcheng. After he is healthy and can bear his son's anger, he can go wherever he likes!I can't control my mother's family's affairs, and I won't let her control them.
Life was still going on, so Chen Hong went to pick up the express delivery in the afternoon.She bought two more fishing rods and various tool accessories online, as well as a box of silver needles.
When the child fell asleep at night, Chen Hong took the silver needle and started experimenting.What she bought was a box of 100 silver needles, which cost only 270 yuan. It was really cheap and high-quality.
This box of silver needles is a special silver needle of 0.1x15cm. It is a product specially customized by Chen Hong and the merchant.
Chen Hong is about to perform acupuncture and exploratory surgery on sea shells and coconut snails.This is a method that Chen Hong just came up with in the past few days, and he doesn't know what the result will be.Everything depends on the survival of the shellfish today and tomorrow. I hope it will be successful.
Chen Hong picked up large seashells and put them into a large basin. She first counted 30 and started experimenting.A large water tank has been prepared next to it, and half of the tank has been filled with space water in advance, just waiting for the seashells.
He took out an iron basin, sprinkled a bag of sea salt into it, placed two seashells in the basin, and prepared two sterilized wooden wedges and silver needles at hand.
After a while, Chen Hong saw both seashells opening their small mouths. She quickly plugged the tip of the wooden wedge into the opening of the shell to prevent it from closing.
Then I started experimenting with seashells in my left hand and silver needles in my right hand.Insert the silver needle into the middle of the shell meat, and start to squint your eyes and slowly probe little by little, carefully feeling whether there is any hard object stuck between the shell meat.
To Chen Hong's delight, she found nothing on the first one, so she casually threw it into the water tank prepared with space water.When the silver needle penetrated the body of the second seashell, a foreign body was clearly felt.
Dad earns money alone to support a family of ten people including grandparents, brothers, sister, and his own family, but he can't afford to be a [-] cent home.
In comparison, if I spend 30 yuan to buy some durian for my son and have to secretly carry it behind my husband's back, I am already relatively financially free.
In the end, Chen Hong relied on comparing her father's difficult life to persist until her eldest son graduated from college and her younger son grew up.Anyone who has experienced a depressing married life knows what it feels like!
I have started over in this life, and I have escaped from that painful and helpless fate.But how can his father change him?
Chen Hong had a headache. She knew her father's stubbornness very well.In his previous life, it was just before he fell ill and could no longer speak.
I tried to persuade him to work less and worry less about his brother's family. No matter how many times I tried to persuade him, he wouldn't listen.His motto throughout his life is "Keep pushing the cart without falling!"Do it while you're alive, even if you die! 》
This is what he said and did in his previous life.But by seeing his eyes in the later stages of his illness, Chen Hong knew that he probably regretted it.But it was too late, nothing could be done.
The son he had struggled for half his life had let him down, and he had not been cared for much throughout the entire illness.The daughter-in-law is not even close to her, and the younger daughter lives far away in Beijing.With only his eldest daughter by his side, he is helpless and unable to protect himself.
After a fierce marital quarrel, Chen Hong had obtained her husband's permission to take her father home to take care of her.But the stubborn and sensitive old man was determined not to leave his old house or embarrass his daughter.
Such a father makes Chen Hong feel extremely guilty and sad. Since her father passed away, she has been avoiding the topic of her father.What to say?Talk about your own incompetence, talk about your own powerlessness, or talk about your own helplessness.
In the last days, the father and daughter could only hold each other's hands and talk to each other silently.Chen Hong knew that her father was worried about her, and regretted that she had listened to her mother and indulged her brother too much, causing her brother to become a lazy and show-off person like her grandfather.
Although he tried hard to correct his brother's temper in the later period, there was a huge gap between father and son, and he even suffered a stroke and blood clot due to anger, but he did not see any change in his brother.
Dad left with regrets. He had worked hard all his life, and his three children could not allow him to live his old age with peace of mind.In the last ten days of his father's life, his three children surrounded his bed. He didn't know that the youngest daughter she was most proud of was divorced at the age of 45.
The little sister hid it from everyone in the family, just like Chen Hong now. She didn't want her family to know, so she could only worry and feel sad, but she couldn't do anything to help her. She repeated comforting words.
But sometimes, the comfort of family members can be like a sharp knife that can pierce people's hearts.It's better to pretend that you don't understand, let the pain be quietly taken away by time, and never mention it again.
Since the death of their father, sisters Chen Hong have actually complained about their mother deep down and don't know how to face her.
My mother has a great responsibility for my father’s life’s pain.She has favored boys over girls since her brother was very young.When my brother made a mistake, he not only ignored him, but also made excuses to cover him up.As a result, the older he got, the more out of place he became, and father and son almost became enemies.
My father’s life savings, under my mother’s planning, bought two houses for my brother.He didn't leave any pension money for himself, and he was faced with difficulties in treating his later illness.
My father earns money all his life. In the first half of his life, he gave it to his grandfather to support his parents and brothers, and in the second half of his life, he gave it to his mother to support his son and his family.
Until he fell ill, he had never saved a dollar and had never had a bank account in his life.All his money was in his mother's hands, and it was used to fill the hole for his son.
Chen Hong's brother is not a bad person, but he has been used to spend money lavishly since he was a child. In addition to eating, drinking and having fun, he plays cards and gets drunk. When he has no money, he asks his mother for money, and he can't control himself at all.
In the eyes of Chen Hong and her younger sister, their mother was helping their brother and his family suck their father's blood.
But what is helpless is that in their feudal thinking, they are willing to die for their son, and all they have to do is for that family.
They never thought that the family did not belong to their father alone, and that the whole family could not live on him alone.
After my father passed away, my brother gradually started working part-time, and my sister-in-law also went to a restaurant to serve dishes and work as a courier.
My mother sadly returned to her hometown to live alone. At that time, she was left alone, and she realized that her husband was much more important to her than her son.
In the past two months after her rebirth, Chen Hong has called her father more than a dozen times.Let him come to Jiaodong to help take care of the children, and she will give him money every month.
But the old man just disagreed. He didn't want to accept his daughter's support, which made him feel embarrassed and couldn't hold his head high.
I have always believed that if I work harder, I can make money, and I don’t rely on anyone.
Such a stubborn father made Chen Hong scratch his head anxiously. There was really nothing he could do about him. He had not suffered the hardships of his previous life, so he would not listen to anyone's persuasion.
When Chen Hong was preparing to return to Jinan for more than ten days to attend her sister-in-law's full moon party, she told her family about her divorce.He and his little sister pretended to be weak and coaxed him to come to Rongcheng.
Maybe after living for a while and seeing that she can make money, she will agree to stay, right?
To be honest, Chen Hong really couldn't predict the outcome, so she could only take it one step at a time.The worst-case scenario is that Dad gets angry again just like in his previous life.
In this life, I have confidence. The space can bring me great wealth, and the food produced can also protect the body.As for whether it can cure diseases, we don't know yet, but the possibility is very small.
Now, Chen Hong is very contented.
When she learned that her father had gone out to work again, Chen Hong called her mother again. She still had a landline at home.The phone rang for a while, and just when Chen Hong thought there was no one at home and was about to put down the phone, she was finally picked up.
Chen Hong heard her brother's voice on the phone and said to the phone: "Brother, didn't you go out to work? Where is our mother?"
"I'm not alive anymore. I'll rest at home for a few days. Our mother is doing laundry! Is something okay?"
Just like in the previous life, every time I heard him speak, it was in the same tone.
"Why don't you do it with our dad? Doesn't our dad have a job? Let our mom answer the phone."
After waiting for a while, my mother's voice came from the other side: "Hong, what's the matter? I'm doing laundry here."
"Why isn't my brother working? I called my dad just now. Isn't my dad working in Jinan?"
"Your brother just came back. It's been too hot these days. Let's rest for a few days before going."
"He knows how hot it is when he's young, but doesn't my dad know how hot it is? I really admire you two! Did you give my dad some of the things I sent home? Do you still have them at home? You drink more too!"
"There is still a bottle of honey and two boxes of tea. The honey is really good this time. I see that your dad has eaten more during this time and his blood pressure is no longer high. If it is better, you can buy some more and send them to me. Last time Your sister-in-law’s mother will come and give her two bottles.”
"Didn't I tell you? This thing is very expensive and difficult to get. I won't let you give it away. I'll leave it for my dad to drink. Why did you give it away? Does dad drink it?"
"It's not an outsider, it's your sister-in-law's mother-in-law. Please lower your voice and let her hear that she doesn't want to. No matter how expensive it is, why are you so expensive? Just buy some after you finish drinking!"
Chen Hong was going crazy when she knew it was like this again: "It's not expensive, let her buy it by herself! Yes, her mother is not an outsider, but I gave it to my dad. 300 yuan a pound, you say it's not expensive You can buy it for my dad!"
"It's so expensive! You naughty kid, why didn't you tell me the price? Why did you buy such an expensive thing?"
"Didn't I say it's expensive? Didn't I say it's hard to get? It's for my dad's body conditioning. If he drinks it for a long time, he won't need to take antihypertensive drugs. How many times have I told you, have you listened?"
"Why are you so angry? Who told you not to pay 300 yuan per pound? As long as you can, you don't care about anything."
"I have to say, my dad will definitely be reluctant to drink it. Your son will have to drink it all. Don't give the remaining bottle to anyone. No one can drink it. Give it to my dad to treat high blood pressure."
After hanging up the phone, Chen Hong's face turned red with anger.I have always been reluctant to call my mother, just to make her angry.
This happens every time. Unless necessary, Chen Hong always calls her father.I can't communicate with my mother at all. It doesn't hurt at all, but both mother and daughter get angry when it comes down to it.
It seems that in the end this bottle of honey will not reach Dad's mouth. Mom will definitely have to give it to his son, daughter-in-law, and granddaughter to drink, and she herself is reluctant to part with it.
Regarding her mother, Chen Hong didn't know how to face her after two lifetimes.In addition to buying some clothes for her to wear and giving her money, she spent it on her son and his family.Give her food and leave it for her son, daughter-in-law, and granddaughter.
Chen Hong had a hard time in her previous life. The money and things given to her were all saved by herself and her son for her, but she always wasted her time. Those things were things that she and her son were reluctant to eat and use.
It seems that we must find a way to bring dad to Rongcheng. After he is healthy and can bear his son's anger, he can go wherever he likes!I can't control my mother's family's affairs, and I won't let her control them.
Life was still going on, so Chen Hong went to pick up the express delivery in the afternoon.She bought two more fishing rods and various tool accessories online, as well as a box of silver needles.
When the child fell asleep at night, Chen Hong took the silver needle and started experimenting.What she bought was a box of 100 silver needles, which cost only 270 yuan. It was really cheap and high-quality.
This box of silver needles is a special silver needle of 0.1x15cm. It is a product specially customized by Chen Hong and the merchant.
Chen Hong is about to perform acupuncture and exploratory surgery on sea shells and coconut snails.This is a method that Chen Hong just came up with in the past few days, and he doesn't know what the result will be.Everything depends on the survival of the shellfish today and tomorrow. I hope it will be successful.
Chen Hong picked up large seashells and put them into a large basin. She first counted 30 and started experimenting.A large water tank has been prepared next to it, and half of the tank has been filled with space water in advance, just waiting for the seashells.
He took out an iron basin, sprinkled a bag of sea salt into it, placed two seashells in the basin, and prepared two sterilized wooden wedges and silver needles at hand.
After a while, Chen Hong saw both seashells opening their small mouths. She quickly plugged the tip of the wooden wedge into the opening of the shell to prevent it from closing.
Then I started experimenting with seashells in my left hand and silver needles in my right hand.Insert the silver needle into the middle of the shell meat, and start to squint your eyes and slowly probe little by little, carefully feeling whether there is any hard object stuck between the shell meat.
To Chen Hong's delight, she found nothing on the first one, so she casually threw it into the water tank prepared with space water.When the silver needle penetrated the body of the second seashell, a foreign body was clearly felt.
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