Chapter 382 The daughter is an outsider
It doesn't matter the order or the heat. Anyway, it's done when it's cooked to a crisp.
Moreover, my mother always puts salt in the pot as soon as the food is put into the pot. She adds too much salt, so any dish in her hands will be very salty.
Mom, I have told you many times that as you are older, you should eat a light diet with less oil and less salt, but you just don’t listen.
Doctors say that my dad has high blood pressure and cannot eat anything too salty, as it is not good for his health! "
Chen Hong’s mother forcefully defended herself: “I’m very busy every day, so I don’t have so much free time to just stay in the kitchen.
You couldn't do anything for me when you were kids, and your dad was often away from home.
I have to do all the work on my own, inside and outside. It’s good if I can cook the food and don’t let you eat raw food.
We farmers don’t have the strength to work without eating something salty. Besides, when we were so poor before, who could cook from time to time?
Mudong, pancakes, and pickles, if you have these three things, it’s a good day if you can eat every meal! "
Chen Hong: “Mom, it’s okay to be poor before, but now life is better and the land at home has been farmed by others.
You and my sister-in-law have nothing else to do at home. Aren't our main tasks just cooking, watching the kids, and doing housework?
Now I don’t need you to make clothes. I have prepared such good seafood and vegetables for you, and you should also do the cooking seriously.
Not to mention that it’s delicious, delicious, but at least it has to be delicious!
In the future, children will not like to eat. They will buy snacks every day, which costs money and is not good for their health. No matter how much you work, there is no point.
Besides, you and my dad are getting older, don’t eat well, and are not in good health. No matter how much health supplements you take, you won’t be able to make up for it.
Chen Hong has always disapproved of her mother's attitude towards life. She has known all her life that working hard will not improve the quality of life even if she is exhausted.
I don't care about food at all, and I mess with everything.
During the Spring Festival, Chen Hong asked someone to send home so much high-end seafood that her mother steamed it three times a day.
Whether it's shrimps, crabs or other fresh fish or squid, it's a dish with some sauce.
Returning to Jinan on the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, Chen Hong didn't know what to say after hearing her mother's sexy tricks.
When the old man gave her advice, she even used Chen Hong’s words to block her: “Didn’t you say that seafood is the simplest and even a fool can cook it, but steaming it in a pot is the most delicious?”
It took a long time to hold back a sentence: "But you are not a fool! Even if you eat dragon meat every day, you will get tired of it!"
How about asking her to talk about her mother? She ignored a hundred other words, but she remembered this one sentence, but it was used against her.
Chen Hong didn't know how to evaluate her mother. The old lady was not a bad person. She had three children, but she only favored her son.
People are always confused, and they work hard all their lives, but they get no good from anyone.
He accepts death, doesn't listen to anyone's opinions, and doesn't get involved in the life of his daughter's family. At best, he is open-minded, and at worst, he is indifferent.
In her mind, when her daughter gets married, she is an outsider! Only her son's family, who lives with her, are the closest to her.
She is just an ordinary old rural lady, and she can only see the current situation.
She would never have thought that her son did not give her a grandson, but only two granddaughters.
According to her old thinking, in less than twenty years, her two granddaughters will grow up and become so-called outsiders after they get married.
By the time she was in her old age, the only people she called her family were her son and daughter-in-law. (The daughter-in-law is not of the same mind as her!)
In fact, Chen Hong couldn't figure out what the old lady was thinking.
Aren’t both my son and my daughter my own biological children? The relationship between her daughter-in-law and son-in-law should be equally distant.
When a granddaughter grows up and gets married, isn’t the relationship more distant than that of a daughter?
Why should we separate the nephew and the granddaughter into internal and external differences, treat the nephew as a relative, and only regard the granddaughter as our own child?
After Chen Hong was reborn, she never got close to her two nieces.
The two sisters' inhumane behavior in the previous life hurt her heart. Although she was reborn and those things had not happened yet, Chen Hong still felt a little uncomfortable when she saw her two nieces.
Chen Hong was wondering if she had made another soft-hearted mistake by letting them stay.
In the evening, her father and brother came to the villa, and Chen Hong prepared a large table of delicious dishes.
Braised eel, braised Yellow River tortoise, steamed Matsuba crab, steamed Pipa shrimp, sweet and sour pork ribs, braised beef, grilled rapeseed with sea rice, and cold fungus lettuce.
For the staple food, Chen Hong steamed a large pot of seaweed buns and cooked a pot of new millet dough. Her parents could not live without the mud porridge morning and night. This was their eating habit for many years.
Seeing a large family eating lively around the big dining table, Chen Hong’s father was very happy: “The dining table at Xiaohong’s house is big enough for the whole family to sit down.
It’s still good, there are so many people and it’s so lively!
Even without Zhou Yi and Xiaoyun, I don’t know when the family will be able to get together?
I hope they can come back this summer, and when the four families gather together, it will be a real happy reunion! "
When Chen Yi saw his father so happy, he couldn't control his mouth after drinking two glasses of wine.
"Dad, let's work hard and strive to buy such a big villa in the future. When my sister and her family come back, we can squeeze it in."
Chen Hong's father snorted: "If you want to be filial, you have to be the one! You want to buy a villa, and you drag your father to work for you.
But it’s a good thing that you are motivated! As long as you have the will to live a good life and work hard in the future, I will sacrifice my old bones and help you as much as I can.
Chen Yi, you have to know in your heart that our family's life is better this year than before, and it's all thanks to your sister picking on you.
You are brothers and sisters, and there is no requirement for you to repay gratitude. As long as you are able to stand on your own feet, don't hold your sister back. "
Brother Chen Hong nodded repeatedly: "Dad, I understand. I will work hard and make more money. I also want to buy a big house for you to live in.
Dad, don’t worry, we three brothers and sisters will definitely be filial to you. "
Chen Hong's father shook his head: "If you don't say you are filial to our old couple, but you also have to get your two sisters, I will definitely be happier after hearing this!"
Chen Hong didn't say anything. Her brother was her parents' favorite. Some things they said were fine, but she would offend people if she said them.
But her father is happy that after all her kindness to her family is not in vain.
Why! Isn’t it said that you can only talk about love and not reason with your loved ones? From now on, she should just turn a blind eye to matters at home.
After all, those sad things in her previous life have not happened yet. She has the financial strength in this life and turns a blind eye to her mother's family. If she doesn't help her, not only will she not be able to overcome the hurdle in her heart, but she will also be gossiped about by outsiders.
That is to say, spending more money is a matter of filial piety to your parents, as long as the mother's family does not do too much and does not affect her life.
After dinner, the two nieces were extremely envious when they saw Yu Yang playing the guitar. The eldest niece ran to her mother, pulled her sleeves and said secretly:
"Mom, I also want to learn guitar. Look at how beautifully Yu Yang plays it!
I want to learn how to sing. When I grow up, I will become a singer and earn a lot of money for you and my dad to spend. "
Sister-in-law Chen Hong is in a dilemma. Her family's financial situation is such that they are still struggling to buy a house. What's more, they want to move their household registration to Jinan City so that their two children can go to school in the city.
These things cost a lot of money, and it seems they have to work hard to make money!